LOVE

Love for our spouse is demonstrated az we go out of our way to make sacrifices on their behalf. Abraham said the following to Sarah "And when God had me wander from my father’s household, I said to her, ‘This is how you can show your love to me: Everywhere we go, say of me, “He is my brother.”’” Gen. 20:13

2. Love is showing kindness to your spouse or another person. "When God caused me to wander from my father's house, I said to her, This kindness you can show me: at every place we stop, say of me, He is my brother.

Genesis 20:13 AMPC

3. Our LORD for God is demonstrated when we are ready to sacrifice what we love and like for Him. Abraham was ready to sacrifice is only begotten son in obedience to God. "Some time later, God tested Abraham’s faith. “Abraham!” God called. “Yes,” he replied. “Here I am.” “Take your son, your only son—yes, Isaac, whom you love so much—and go to the land of Moriah. Go and sacrifice him as a burnt offering on one of the mountains, which I will show you.” The next morning Abraham got up early. He saddled his donkey and took two of his servants with him, along with his son, Isaac. Then he chopped wood for a fire for a burnt offering and set out for the place God had told him about.

Genesis 22:1‭-‬3 NLT

THIS IS TRUE LOVE!

 Love is willingly to pay any price to secure the attention and affection of its subject; it means a man will be willing to go to any mile to secure the attention of the person they love. Jacob was ready and willing to work for 14 years to secure the affection of Rachel. Since Jacob was in love with Rachel, he told her father, “I’ll work for you for seven years if you’ll give me Rachel, your younger daughter, as my wife.”

 

Love is showing kindness to you spouse beyond the confines of obligation because you want to make them happy. It is going out of your way to make necessary sacrifices for your husband, wife, fiancee snd fiance when the need arrives in the relationship. Sarah covered marital status to Abraham her husband to preserve his life.

FEELINGS OF LOVE CAN INCREASE & DECREASE

Love for a person can either increase or decrease. The bible noted that Jacob love for Rachel was more than his Love for Leah. The Love a woman has for her husband may be greater than the Love she got for her children. Moreso, the kind of love betwern a man and his wife is different from the love betwern parents and their children. And this feelings of Love can either be in greater or less measures. Actions and thoughts can affect the measure of Loving feelings in the heart of a mzn. 

FEELINGS ARE MEASURABLE

Love is measurable. Rebecca had more love for her son Jacob thsn for her son Esau. Jacob' s actions and attitudes towards what please hid mother stor up greater love in Rebecca's heart got Jacob while Esau's actions of marrying foreign women brought displeasure  to his parents. Feelings are dependant on either positive or negative actions. And Jacob made love to Rachel also, and his love for Rachel was greater than his love for Leah. And he worked for Laban another seven years. 

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SEX & LOVE- MAKING.

 Sex is not just the coming together of two bodies of the opposite sex. Rather, the Bible calls the sexual interaction between a man and a woman " Making Love"  Love- making is like creating and producing a new movie on a particular subject or theme.  In producing movies, script writing is involved, your imagination and visualisation is involved. Your create the right setting that will catch the viewers imagination and give ultra-,high enjoyment.

The same techniques, attention, visualisation, imagination should be employed in the 'Acts and Arts of Love- making". Body and mind exploration between married couples is an 'Act' ( actions are involved,  you carry out "Acts and actions to communicate the feelings in your heart to your Lover. When this happens, your kisses are slower and intentional  to bring the greatest gratification: The touch on your lover's body are calculated to cause warmth to spread through the body of your Lover; overall satisfaction for your lover is your goal in this instance. Vulnerability is essential for Lovers to attain this state of Love- making. You must freely express your reaction as your lover touched part of you that gives you pleasure. This way, he/ she will learn what brings satisfaction to you.

The "Arts" of Love making is a learned skill. It can be intrinstic but it can also be acquired through intentional learning from books and good videos made by trained personnel that teach couples the arts of love making without Porn. Just as surgical operation is an acquired skill, love making between couples can also be taught.

 Loving- making between two loving Couple should give an out of the space experience to the mind and the Body. It should be two lovers exploring their bodies for the purpose of gratification. The Book of the Songs of Solomon reveals that Making Love with your partner is not just for recreation but is intended to bring intense happiness to lovers.  The only restraint for married couples in the acts of Love Making is their exploration and actions should be consentual and give mutual pleasure.

Christian married Lovers should involve what l call " Love making setting" in their home. The whole house is yours especially as newly wedded to create different scenarios for you as you give each other pleasure. Love Making Setting takes away the boredom of routine and produce a sense of newness and spontaneity.  Learn to communicate with your hearthrob and  create exciting scenarios within your home that excited your mind to give pleasure to you partner. 

√ God's command is Love Making should be between two legally married couple.

√ Love- making should give mutual pleasure

√ Love - making is given by God to be a source of intense pleasure and fun between married couples.

Just as eating certain food gives you pleasure, buying a new car makes you happy, getting promotion in your career brings a sense of fulfillment. God ordained Sexual activities between married couples to be  acts you look forward to in bringinh intense excitement and pleasure 

You are allowed to meditate, think on what you will do to your husband and wife body before the acts takes place. The thoughts of giving pleasure through certain exploration prepares every part of your body to participate in the acts. This way, orgasm can be a daily occurence for married couples..You can can still enjoy the pleasure of love- making though you have children around. Your Bedroom can take different shape and appearances though the furniture are not changed.

Therefore Love-making can be defined as the act of pouring the feelings of Love in a man/woman heart into pleasureable  acts demonstrated on the body of the recipients

 Sexual interaction without the lubricant of feelings of Love is just sex and not loving Making. Love making is two lovers who are in love coming together and demonstrating their love for each other by intimate touch and exploration of bodily parts that give intense pleasure to the other. Love making in this way becomes therapeutic. It relaxes your nerves, bring your mind to an heightened tempo whereby it can function maximally. It becomes an element that married couples look forward to and improves intimacy and soul bonding between couples.

So Jacob served seven years to get Rachel, but they seemed like only a few days to him because of his love for her. Then Jacob said to Laban, “Give me my wife. My time is completed, and I want to make love to her. ” Genesis 29:22

7 Love for a person can increase and also decrease. The bible noted that Jacob love for Rachel was more than his Love for Leah. The Love a woman has for her husband may be greater than the Love she got for her children. It means love is measurable. Jacob made love to Rachel also, and his love for Rachel was greater than his love for Leah. And he worked for Laban another seven years. Jacob’s Children zGen. ,29:32