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HUSBAND LOVE YR WIFE AS CHRIST LOVES...

PATIENCE, A VIRTUE EVERY HUSBAND NEEDS! Sincerely, the word 'LOVE' is the most important word for me in the World apart from the word 'The Christ'  The Christ left His throne to become a man because of Love.  He went through emotional and physical pain because of the same love.  He died and resurrected because 'He so loved the world that He chose to died so that  any MAN/ WOMAN who can just take the simple step of believing in Him will have everlasting life: In 1Cor. 13:4 the first attribute of true love is 'PATIENCE'.  Intentionally, I wrote 'TRUE LOVE' because most of what is defined as love in Modern society is big deviation from the original template of The God called LOVE. God ordained that the Love between husbands and wives consist of 'Philoes' and ' Eros' in its true sense. But the foundation for every transaction of love either in the family, husband and wife, friends etc must be ' AGAPE' the God- kind of love. The Ho

SAMSON, THE LONE MIGHTY MAN

SAMSON, THE LONE MIGHTY MAN SONG Our Father, who art in Heaven Hallowed be thy name.. SAMSON, THE LONE WARRIOR'! A SONG Our Father, who art in Heaven Hallowed be thy name....... The Almighty, our Father is a God of CONTINUITY. He is called THE GOD OF ABRAHAM, THE GOD OF ISAAC AND THE GOD OF JACOB. God raise and anoints men and women so that they can train and mentor believers who will stand for Christ Jesus in their generation.  Then they will  correctly and successfully pass the Light to the next generation.  While King David successfully raised other mighty men through the Warrior anointing given to him and defeated the Enemy of God's people- The Philistines. Samson was given the same warrior's anointing , but he did not raised other men like himself and did not wipe out the Philistines as God ordained. A David had to be raised in another generation to carry out the unfinished assignment of Samson. Sincerely, a World without the love and care of the Almighty demonstrated

YOU ARE MIGHTY BUT ARR YOUR MEN MIGHTY

InSpired KING DAVID & HIS MIGHTY MEN WERE GREAT IN BATTLE,  InSpired YOU ARE MIGHTY  BUT DO YOU HAVE MIGHTY MEN? "These are the names of David’s mighty warriors: Josheb-Basshebeth, a Tahkemonite, was chief of the Three; he raised his spear against eight hundred men, whom he killed in one encounter. Next to him was Eleazar son of Dodai the Ahohite. As one of the three mighty warriors, he was with David when they taunted the Philistines gathered at Pas Dammim for battle. Then the Israelites retreated, but Eleazar stood his ground and struck down the Philistines till his hand grew tired and froze to the sword. The Lord brought about a great victory that day. The troops returned to Eleazar, but only to strip the dead...... 2 Sam. 23:8-20 How weary it would have been if it was only King David that fought the Philistines? How mystic, it would have been if the warrior anointing was only on King David and the men who surrounded him viewed him as a special god; made specially by God an

CHARACTERS AROUND THE CROSS

InSpired CHARACTERS AROUND THE CROSS MARY: ONE VOTE, YOUR DECISION.... What is the essence of my Christian faith,  - Believe in Christ ?(👍) -  Baptised in the Holy Ghost? (👍) -Speaks in Tongues? (👍) -Attend church? (👍) -Offer my services in Church? (👍) A successful career? (👍) Have an awesome family ?(👍) Effective network of personal and corporate relationships ? (👍) But do you want to be remembered by posterity for these alone? Will your name appear in the Archives of men and women who helped the course of the Kingdom immensely? Will you be a case study for future generations? Will the next generations do research about you  and reprint your  works over and over again? The woman with the Alabaster jar of oil was like any  another woman until her action distinguished her and gave her a unique place in the greatest Book in the History of Man. She was not ordained from the womb to be a prophetess, but her heart filled and full with adoration led her into fulfillment of prophecy a

THE OBADIAH GENERATIONS

THE OBADIAH GENERATIONS The Lord is raising Obadiahs, men and women who are in the political, economic, business mainstreams yet will never bow to the idols controlling the secular institutions but will still retain their positions of authority and influence with godliness  Men like Daniel, Nehemiah, Ezra, Joseh, Ibaduqh are men trained by the Spieit, empowered by the Spirit to influence their environments for Him  They are Christ representative whereby they are placed and located.

QUOTATION

Never complled, corced or forced anybody to pray, serve or worship me. Let everyone who seeks me do it freely and without a grudge. 1 Kings 18:22

WISDOM NUGGETS

The Spirit of God empowers believers to prohecy but Satan can also stirs up his servants to prophecy while the prophecies inspired by the Holy Spirit is peaceful, the other is accomplish with a lot of human display and mostly draws attention to men. I Dam 19:23-24

ELEMENTS OF SUBMISSION

InSpired ELEMENTS OF  SUBMISSION   HEADSHIP There is this beautiful story of God and the Council in Heaven in one of the decision-making process and this can help in the headship of the husband template. Hebrews 1 reveals that Christ is the radiance of the Father, and His exact representation, Christian marriage relationship is constituted by God to demonstrate the manifolds expression of His love and Kingdom governances. In the Story in 1 Kings, Micaiah was recounting an event in Heaven "Micaiah continued, “Therefore hear the word of the Lord: I saw the Lord sitting on his throne with all the multitudes of heaven standing around him on his right and on his left.  And the Lord said, ‘Who will entice Ahab into attacking Ramoth Gilead and going to his death there?’ “One suggested this, and another that.  Finally, a spirit came forward, stood before the Lord and said,  ‘I will entice him.’  “‘By what means?’ the Lord asked.  “‘I will go out and be a deceiving spirit in the mouths of

HUSBANAD YOUR WIFE AS CHRIST LOVE THE CHURCH

LOVE YOUR WIFE AS CHRIST LOVRD PEYER 1. HE GAVE HIM DITECTION FOR HIS ENDEAVOURS 2. HE REBUKED HIM WHEN HE OPENED UP HIMSELF TO SATAN INFLUENCE- EVR AND AFAM- AFAM WAS PASSIVE WHEN SATAN CAME CALLING FOR HIS WIFE, AHAB ALLOWED HIS WIFE TO BRING A STRANGE GOD INTO THE FAMILY AND SUBMITTED TO THWM, INSTEAD OF BRINGING HIS WIFE UNDER HIS AUTHOEITY AND THE AUTHOEITY OF GOD ISAAC HAD GONE BLIND AND WAS LOOKING FOR VENISON FROM HIS SON WHILW THE WIFE WHILW THE WIFE WAS USING HER SCHEMES TO CONNECT THEM TO THE PEIPHCY OF GOD FOR THWIR LIVES ELI  AND SAMUEL WERE SI BUSY WITH MINISTRY THAT THEIR CHILDREN HAD FORSAKE. GOD AND THEY DIS BOT KNOW! JESUS WAS ON POI T WHEN SATAN CAME FOR PETER.  THE FIRST TIME, HE RWBUKED HIM WHEN HE BEOUGHT A SUGGEATION FROM SATAN THAT WAS NOT IN ALUGNMENT WITH GOD'S OLAN  AND PEIPHECY FOR THE FAMILY FOR THE FAMILY THE SECOND TUME, HE PRAYED FOR HIM WHEB SATAN ACTUAL CAME TO SUEVE HIN THE MAN IS THE PROTECTOR OF HIS WIFE AS CGRIST IS THE PROTECTOR OF TGE CHYRCH.

HUSBANDS LOVE YOUR WIFE AS CHRIST LOVE THE CHURCH

InSpired ONLY CHRIST MARRIAGE TEMPLATE CAN HEAL THIS DYING WORLD.!HUSBAND!  The institution of Marriage is  ordained by God and can only be sustained by His wisdom and power. It's a mystery and only the God who created it can help you understand it. No fallen man can truly love another person especially his wife as Christ loves the Church without the empowerment of the Holy Spirit: For the average man is first concern about himself and his interest before he considers others. Our LORD and Saviour informed the disciples to tarry in Jerusalem until they are ensued with power from on high, then they can be Christ  witness to the World. The Christian marriage is crystallized by God to be a witness of God's love and authority to people who do not believe in His Son Jesus Christ. The Bible says 'for God so loved the World, your union is the first institution used by God  for the full expression of His Love. It is God's desire that His ove demonstrated in your family in its tr

HUSBAND LOVE YR WIFE AS CHRIAT LOVES THE CHURCH- SCENARIO TWO

InSpired HUSBAND, YOUR MARRIAGE MAY BE FAILING IF YOU ARE NOY

ELEMENTS OF A MAN'S LOBE FOR HIS WIFE

He was a fisher man, very skillful at it, he had his lips as a weapon, he was quick with words and assume to know much yet the Master ordained him to be the leader of the New Testwnt Church of Christ. No other disviples demonstrates the love of the master for his Church as a husband is supposed to demonstrate his love for his wife as the relationship between Peter and our Lord Jesus. We can be certain that few 21st Century leaders would have wanted the Peter the Cross to become the leader of people they made the greatest sacrifice for after their demise yet Christ, our Lord chose Peter of all the disciples to lead the Church  This is why Christ the LORD will always be our perfect example. 1Cor. 13:4-7 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, a

HUSBAND LOVE AS CHRIST LOVES

Marriage is beautiful in its entirety, its unique in its conception and it's a mystery fashioned by The Father to demo straye the precious relatuo ship between the God- Head. While Jehovah was the viable voice in the era of the Law, He would say ' come let makean in our image and likenesa"; " who shall we send, who will go for us" This statement shows a syenery of the God head in everything. In the New Testament, Christ display a different kind of relationship in the God-Head. Philippians two days "Thou God, He did not consider equality with God. Therefore statemt such as ' I can of myself do nothing, my judgement is right because l only judge as l hear from my Father. We took time to go through the different spheres of relationships in the God- Head to lay a solid foundation for the relationship between husband and wife. We will make an attempt to study how Christ loves the Church by His interaction with His disciples who are his bride to help the man u

ELEMENTS OF A HUSBAND LOBE FOR HIS WIFE-KINDNESS

AN ELEMENT OF A HUSBAND LOVE FOR HIS WIFE-KINDNESS Kindness is a love language; it has a voice that can be heard in the saddest heart and the most chaotic mind. A man must learn to use it for his wife and children.  Women  have  huge capacity to care for others- God configured the female specie in such a way that a emotion encircles her heart and decision. While a male is calculating on what benefits he will get from a particular relationship, a woman is moved by how the relationship makes her feel.  High feelings is an indicator of rightness for her while low feelings is a red light that signifies ' Don't come any further' Genuine Kindness void of manipulative tendencies will unlock this depth of rich feelings within the woman. Christ though God demonstrated kindness to the people around Him especially his disciples in various instances. 1. He prepared a meal for the disciples when he appeared to them after his resurrection.  Surely, at this point, they deserved a rebuke f

THE PERFECT MARRIAGE

InSpired  THE PERFECT HELP-MEET. Some few years back, I got some quotations from a Christian book which outlined the qualities of a perfect help- meet.  Hearing the phrase perfect help Meet, I knw your mind is already carrying placard and protesting " there is no perfect help-meet anywhere"  Please permit, my unsual reasoning for the purpose of this write-up. My definition of 'perfect help-meet'  in this context is  good, the best Help-meet a man can have. This Book says a perfect Help-meet is a lady who does the following to her partner: 1. Shares his hopes, dreams and bear his hurts and frustrations. ( I replied in my heart- the woman na him 'Paid Shrink') 2. Brings him before God's throne in prayer every day) 3.  Put his sexual and emotional needs ahead  of hers ( I thought, woman dey enter oooo) 4.   Enable him become all God wants him to be and accomplish God's purpose 5. Have dinner ready whn he gets home 6. Encourage him to talk abt his life goa

PREFACE

PREFACE The Book of Song of Solomon contains the most explicit emotional outpour of the love between a man and a woman. The Book of Proverbs 30:18-19 says  " There are three things that are too amazing for me, four that I do not understand: the way of an eagle in the sky, the way of a snake on a rock, the way of a ship on the high seas, and the way of a man with a young woman. King Solomon was the king of Israel with many wives and concubines yet he still felt this way about a damsel. The relationship with a man and woman has the capacity to stir up the deepest feelings within and close the vault of rational reasoning so that the most sensitive of men do the unexpectable. Below is a sample of the love exchange between King Solomon and his dark and beautiful African damsel  The purpose of this Book is that you will find the unique love that will bring sunshine into your heart and keep you warm when the cold hands of challenges come knocking at your door. We pray that you will also

PREFACE Original

THE GREATEST LOVE OF ALL King David was not categorically called a Watchman in the Bible per se but the principle of ‘Concern for God and His Kingdom’ opened his life and that of his seed to eternal blessings and relevance.  The greatest gift the Almighty wants from you is the gift of  having an intimate relationship with Him. Mark 12:28-31 One of the teachers of the law came and heard them debating.  Noticing that Jesus had given them a good answer, he asked him, “Of all the commandments, which is the most important?”  “The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel:  The Lord our God, the Lord is one.  Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’  The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’  There is no commandment greater than these.” Mark 22: 28-31 (NIV) It is the love of God that is shed abraod in your heart that enables you and empowers you to love your others especially your sp

SCENARIO ONE

THEY WERE CREATED IN 'TWOs' The Book of Song of Solomon contains the most explicit emotional outpour of the love between a man and a woman. The Book of Proverbs 30:18-19 says  " There are three things that are too amazing for me, four that I do not understand: the way of an eagle in the sky, the way of a snake on a rock, the way of a ship on the high seas,  and the way of a man with a young woman. King Solomon was the king of Israel with many wives and concubines yet he still felt this way about a damsel. The relationship with a man and woman has the capacity to stir up the deepest feelings within and close the vault of rational reasoning so that the most sensitive of men do the unexpectable. A sample of the love exchange between King Solomon and his dark and beautiful African damsel  A SONG BY TWO LOVERS. Like a lily among thorns is my darling among the young women. ​ I am a rose of Sharon, a lily of the valleys.  He Like a lily among thorns is my darling among the young

SCENARIO 13

InSpired MARY AND JOSEPH MARRIAGE TEMPLATE AN INYRODUCTION The Kingdom of God is about His purposes and plans for His beloved- The Believers.  Jesus Christ our Saviour and Lord demonstrated His complete submission to the 'Will' of the Father in the Graden of Gethsemane when He cried out " Not my Will but thy Will be done"  In as much as we have made an attempt to demonstrate that God has created man as a free agent who has the right to the use of their 'Will' to make choices in their careers,and life endeavours, the marriage institutions inclusive. Yet, God expects the sons and Daughters of the Kingdom of Christ- (purchased and redeemed by the blood of Jesus) to have a continually walk with Him and not just work for Him or work with Him. Phrases like ' I work for God',  and ' I work with God' are beautiful but we must graduate to the level of a deep with relationship as God required from Abraham when He told him in Genesis 17  "When Abram

SCENARIO ELEVEN

InSpired THE EFFECTIVE THIRD PARTY IN MARRIAGE CHOICE THE REBECCA MARRIAGE TEMPLATE It is believed that third parties are intrusions in any marriage relationship.  Moreso, this School of Thought believes that God's command is " And a man shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife and they will become one"  My opinion is -If the idea of third party in your marriage relationship is an intrusion is accepted as absolute truth, then your mother-in-law should be banned from coming to help in taking care of your new born babies. Your in-laws should not spend time and money during your wedding and naming ceremonies. While the case of third parties can be burdensome in certain cases, but they can really be a blessing when handled with care, wisdom and God's help. I am a strong believer in asking for the help of The Almighty in every decisions. Some Advocates of living your life without Christ's help would say that secular business moguls are highly successful

QUOTATION

GOD , THE ALMIGHTY IS THE GREATEST LOVER , HUMAN8TY HAS AND WILL EVER HAVE.

SCENARIO TWELVE

InSpired MARITAL CHOUCE BY EXPERIENCE  Sometimes we fashioned, patterned our decisions, career, ministry after that of our neighbours and the trend in the Society  In as much as our Heavenly Father is the Ancient of  Days and the same yesterday, today and forever,  The Word of God is not revolving like Science but it's operations are diverse. It may be the same Spirit but it's administrations may differ.  Hebrews 1:1 reveals 'In the past God spoke to our ancestors through the prophets at many times and in various ways, but in these last days he has spoken to us by his Son' The Rachel and Jacob marriage template is diverse in its components and we will attempt to examine it.. The mother of Jacob requested that her husband (Isaac) allowed their son (Jacob) to go to her brother in Haram and get a wife. (I guess just as she was gotten for Isaac.)  She probably narrated to Jacob; the story of how she met their father.  So Jacob equipped with this story ( and marriage choice

SCENARIO TEN

InSpired QUEEN ESTHER, A WOMAN OF MANY COLOURS SHE OPERATED BY GOD'S WISDOM King Ahesuerus was an heathen king that did not understand the Laws of God (he was an unbeliever)   but  Esther through obeying the principles of honour, submission and respect to her husband was able to bring her husband to a state whereby he loved her so much that he was ready to give her half of his Kingdom. This is the action of a man whose.heart trust in Esther and knew his kingdom was safe with her.  Esther had wisdom, she knew how to apply the knowledge she had about her husband to meet her need SHE.UNDERSTOOD HER PLACE IN THE KING'S LIFE She never misused the privileges given to her by her husband the King. She separated the office of the King from that of her husband- her.lover. She will not appear in the King's presence excerpt summoned. Though, this may appear an archaic pattern of marriage especially in this age of women liberation but we must accept the truths of the Bible as our tenets

SCENARIO EIGHT

InSpired PRESENT NEED! FUTURE NEED THE VASHTI MARRIAGE TEMPLATE Modern Society is on the progressive train of demanding more from womanhood than their former primary role of 'Nurturer' in the Home. Women are CEO of conglomerate and more and more are pioneers and pacesetters in their careers.  The mental, spiritual, and economic  capacities of these women had  been stretch beyond measures to accommodate these new roles and demand. The Vashti marriage template presupposes that the initial need of a partner (male and female) may change as their mindset, career and dreams/vision progresses.  Queen Vashtu was an exceptional beautiful woman that King Xerxes (Esther 1) was proud to show off to his Kingdom officials and guests. This action reveals that her beauty may be his primary choice of queen Vashti. But future events in his kingdom demanded for a woman with more than just a beautiful face: he realised he also needed a submissive woman who can be a role model to other women in his